The Empowering Choice: Reframing Language to Fuel Your Motivation

The Empowering Choice: Reframing Language to Fuel Your Motivation

In a world filled with endless to-do lists and responsibilities, it's easy to fall into the trap of feeling like we "HAVE" to do this, we "MUST" do that, or we "SHOULD" do this. But what if we told you that the simple act of changing your language could be the key to unlocking your motivation? The power of choice is a force to be reckoned with, and by shifting from "HAVE" to "CHOOSE," you can transform your mindset and achieve the motivation you need.

The Power of Choice

When you say, "I HAVE to do this," it can create a sense of obligation and even resistance. However, when you say, "I CHOOSE to do this," you take ownership of your actions. This small change in language can make a massive difference in how you approach tasks and challenges. You're no longer a victim of circumstance; you're a proactive decision-maker.

Breaking Free from "MUST"

The word "MUST" often carries a heavy burden. It implies that something is non-negotiable, which can be mentally exhausting. On the other hand, saying, "I CHOOSE to do this," shifts the focus from obligation to desire. You're no longer forced; you're motivated by your inner drive.

Ditching "SHOULD"

"SHOULD" can be one of the most disempowering words in our vocabulary. It's often linked to societal expectations or what others think we ought to do. When you replace it with "I CHOOSE to do this," you regain control. You're making decisions based on your values and goals, not external pressures.

Language as Motivation

Your choice of words can be a powerful motivator. When you consistently use "CHOOSE" instead of "HAVE," "MUST," or "SHOULD," you remind yourself that you are in control of your actions. You're not a passive participant in your life; you're an active creator of your destiny.

Choose Your Words Wisely

So, how can you start implementing this change in your daily life? It begins with awareness. Pay attention to the language you use when discussing your tasks and goals. Are you saying "HAVE," "MUST," or "SHOULD" more often than "CHOOSE"? If so, it's time to make a conscious effort to reframe your language.

 Conclusion

The power of choice is a remarkable tool for boosting motivation. By shifting from disempowering words like "HAVE," "MUST," and "SHOULD" to the empowering word "CHOOSE," you take control of your actions and mindset. Your language can shape your reality, so choose your words carefully, and let them work for you.

We hope this article has inspired you to embrace the power of choice and make the shift in your language. We look forward to seeing your comments and likes on our videos and articles as we explore more ways to empower your life.

Written by Masonwabe Nyanga

The Power of Taking Action: Motivation Follows

The Power of Taking Action: Motivation Follows

Do you ever find yourself waiting for that burst of motivation to kick in before starting a task or pursuing a goal? If so, you're not alone.

Many of us have been conditioned to believe that motivation is a prerequisite for taking action. However, there's a little-known secret that can change your life: Action often comes before motivation.

Think of it this way - have you ever hesitated to go for a workout because you didn't feel motivated? You're not alone. But here's the twist: once you start the workout, even if you had to drag yourself into it, something magical happens. Your motivation gradually kicks in, and you find yourself in the flow, pushing through your limits.

Nike's famous slogan, "Just do it," encapsulates this principle perfectly. It's a reminder that you don't always have to wait for the stars to align or for motivation to strike like lightning. Instead, you can take charge of your actions and let motivation follow suit.

Here are a few reasons why taking action before feeling motivated is so powerful:

1.Overcoming Procrastination:

Procrastination often stems from waiting for the "right" moment or the "right" mood. By taking action first, you break through this barrier and start making progress.

2.Building Momentum:

Action begets action. Once you start, you create a momentum that propels you forward, making it easier to stay on track.

3.Boosting Confidence:

Achieving even small wins through action boosts your confidence. This confidence, in turn, can fuel your motivation for more significant tasks.

4.Eliminating Excuses: 

When you prioritize action, you eliminate excuses. You no longer have room for "I'll do it later" or "I'm not in the mood."

5.Cultivating Discipline:

Consistently taking action fosters discipline, a valuable trait in achieving long-term goals.

So, how can you apply this principle in your life? Start by identifying a task or goal you've been putting off. Instead of waiting for motivation to strike, take the first step. It could be as simple as opening your laptop, writing the first sentence of that project, or lacing up your sneakers for a workout.

As Masonwabe Nyanga, a life coach, motivator, and public speaker, reminds us, action is the catalyst for change. Don't wait for motivation to find you—take action, and motivation will follow.

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Embracing Life's Magic: Motivation

Embracing Life's Magic: Motivation

In a world that often feels like a chaotic dance, I want to reminds you to find your rhythm and embrace life with open arms.

 With a collection of inspirational quotes from some of history's greatest minds, my message is clear: motivation can be found in the simplest of moments.

1. Dance Like There's Nobody Watching

   William W. Purkey's words encourage us to shed our inhibitions and dance through life's challenges, unburdened by fear.

2. Dragons Can Be Beaten

   Neil Gaiman's perspective on fairy tales reminds us that life's obstacles, no matter how daunting, can be conquered.

3. Imagination Becomes Reality

   Pablo Picasso's insight teaches us that our thoughts have the power to shape our world.

4. Open New Doors of Happiness

   Helen Keller's wisdom reminds us that life is full of opportunities, even when we face setbacks.

5. Conquer Your Fears Daily

   Eleanor Roosevelt encourages us to step out of our comfort zones and grow through fear.

6. Don't Dwell in the Past

   Lewis Carroll's words remind us to focus on the present moment, for we are ever-evolving.

7. Learning from Smart Minds

   Socrates' wisdom highlights the importance of continuous learning and humility.

8. Follow Your Heart

   Eleanor Roosevelt's advice encourages us to stay true to our values, even in the face of criticism.

9. Happiness Is a Product of Action

   The Dalai Lama XIV teaches us that happiness is not handed to us; it's a result of our choices and actions.

10. Strive to Be Your Best

    Abraham Lincoln's timeless words inspire us to be the best versions of ourselves.

As a life coach, motivator, public speaker, and motivational speaker, I embodies these principles and shares them with you that  through my videos and articles. My uplifting message resonates with anyone seeking inspiration and motivation in their daily lives.

By Masonwabe Nyanga

The Narrow Way: A Path to Life

The Narrow Way: A Path to Life

In the Gospel of Matthew, Jesus imparts a profound lesson about the choices we make in life. He speaks of two contrasting paths—the wide gate that leads to destruction and the narrow gate that leads to life. Let's explore the significance of these verses and the timeless wisdom they offer.

The Wide Gate

"Enter by the narrow gate; for wide is the gate and broad is the way that leads to destruction, and there are many who go in by it." (Matthew 7:13 NKJV)

The wide gate represents the easy, popular, and often indulgent choices that beckon to us in life. It symbolizes the path of least resistance, where one can follow the crowd without much thought or effort. It's the road that leads to instant gratification, but it's deceptive, for it ultimately leads to destruction.

The Narrow Gate

"Because narrow is the gate and difficult is the way which leads to life, and there are few who find it." (Matthew 7:14 NKJV)

In contrast, the narrow gate signifies the path less traveled, the one that demands discernment, determination, and discipline. It's a challenging journey that requires us to make choices that align with our values and principles. This path leads to true life, but it's not easily found, and only a few choose to walk it.

Key Lessons

1. Discernment: These verses remind us of the importance of discernment in our choices. Not everything that seems attractive or popular is beneficial in the long run.

2. Commitment: The narrow gate teaches us about the value of commitment and perseverance. It's a path that requires us to stay true to our beliefs, even when it's difficult.

3. Individuality: The wide gate represents conformity, while the narrow gate celebrates individuality. Choosing the narrow gate means being true to ourselves and our values, even if it means going against the crowd.

4. Eternal Perspective: Ultimately, the narrow gate leads to eternal life, reminding us to focus on the bigger picture and not just short-term gains.

Conclusion

The words of Jesus in Matthew 7:13-14 challenge us to consider the paths we choose in life. Will we opt for the wide, easy road that leads to destruction, or will we embrace the narrow gate, the path to true and lasting life? The decision is ours to make, and it carries eternal significance. Let us choose wisely and embark on the journey that leads to life.

Notice 3 things about depression.

Notice 3 things about depression. 

1.1 when we feel extremely tired

The devil knows the right time to attack us with *depression. We are especially weak when our bodies feel very tired. It was certainly like this for Elijah. He sat down under a tree and wanted to die. He had no physical energy at the time (1 Kings 18:46). First, he had run nearly 20 miles to a place called Jezreel. Then he heard bad news in the city. So, he ran for more than another 80 miles. He was certainly very tired. It is no surprise to read that he felt depressed.

This may be the main cause for your *depression. Perhaps you do far too much in a day. You do not take care of your body. Please do not forget something. If you are God’s child, your body is the special house of the Holy Spirit. (Read 1 Corinthians 3:16, 17 and 6:19, 20) Do not be careless about your physical needs. This brings dishonour to God. (Dishonour is the opposite of honour.)

You should say some things to yourself. Perhaps I do not have enough rest and sleep. Perhaps I do not make enough time for my leisure. Perhaps I need to relax with some activity. Perhaps I do not have meals at regular times. All these things are very important. They have *spiritual as well as physical importance. There are times when it is easier to become depressed. The devil will try to use them. These times are when our health is weak.

1.2 when we have had great *spiritual benefits

This was how it was for Elijah. He had had a great experience on the mountain. (Read 1 Kings 18:16-39.) What a great success it had been! God had showed his power and greatness. Elijah must have felt great excitement. He was so happy. Then it came ... *depression!

It often happens like that in our lives. There is no natural reason for it. God has just given us a great benefit. But the reason should be plain. The devil wants to steal from us. He wants to take away our joy and peace in God. To make us feel depressed is the easiest way. The devil can use just a minor event in our lives. He tries to make us forget about God. Then we become very depressed.

1.3 when we least expect it

This is the time when the devil comes to attack us. He attacks with ‘the arrows of *depression’. Elijah left the place where he had been successful. He had astonished all the people. Then he rushed off to Jezreel. He was going to tell people about God’s great success. But he was soon a very different man. He was so afraid and depressed. His tears seemed to show that Jezebel had won.

*Depression often comes when we do not expect it. It just appears in our lives. Remember Paul’s words to Christians at Corinth. They warn us all. ‘The person who thinks that he is standing strong should be careful. He might fall.’ (The words are in 1 Corinthians 10:12.)

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Our enemy, the devil, uses depression

This is to make us less able than we usually are. If the devil gets us depressed, he wins a major success. I saw these words in a Bible. ‘I completely refuse to please the devil by being depressed.’ The devil can use all sorts of tests and troubles. He uses them to make us feel depressed. Peter calls them ‘different kinds of troubles’. (Read 1 Peter 1:6.) The word that he uses means ‘many colours’.

Our tests are of various kinds and ‘shades’. But there is something great. It will encourage us. God’s grace is always sufficient. (Note: Grace means kindness. God gives us what we do not deserve. He saves us. He helps us.) Peter writes about ‘different kinds’ of troubles. But he also writes about ‘different kinds’ of grace. (Read 1 Peter 4:10.) Remember Paul’s words too. God says: ‘My grace is all that you need’ (2 Corinthians 12:9).

Notice 3 things about depression.

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Play to your strengths.

Play to your strengths.

Spending too much time in your weaknesses wears you down. Spending more time in your strengths helps you renew your energy and find your flow.

Strengths are the place where you can grow your best. Find the things that you can do all day that you really enjoy and find excuses throughout your day to do more of that. Success builds on itself and this helps you build momentum.

Try out the motivation techniques to see what works for you.

At the end of the day, all motivation really comes down to self-motivation, and you get better at motivation by building your self-awareness.

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